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Love: On being human and the utter impossibility of not falling for it

I wrote this essay in 2014 on the request of an amazing artist friend of mine, Te Neille. I totally forgot about it until today. Posted on Medium.

there is always something traumatic about love; with love there is a permanent emergency state” – Alain Badiou

 

Love, like aesthetics, due to its nature cannot ever be fully conceptualised, this only allures us even more into endless wild speculations about it. It is difficult to speak of love without falling into the two extremes, on one hand emotional outbursts based on personal experience and memory-driven (and thus reactive) convictions on the topic.

 

However imprecise and subjective these arguments may be it is a perfectly reasonable response, as nothing else we will experience will evoke such strong personal feelings as love. On the other extreme, impersonal philosophical meanderings, which are so divorced from the subjective nature of the topic often, succeed in emptying out love of any weight with the clinically disinfected hands of a medical professional. Love is not just a philosophical category, it is lived (painfully) through the subject.

 

As such, I will dispense with a genealogical account of love through the ages, while only making an explicit point that with the term love in this essay I am referring to romantic, passionate love (yes the one that interests us the most, as touching as your not-so-innocent love for your mother is), Eros. Also besides clear and complex links to sex and jealousy, I consider the term love completely unhinged for marriage, reproduction and material connotations. To put this succinctly, the feeling that made you understand all those love songs and behave like an idiot that last time with someone you were involved with, and that hopeless, boundless pain when it ended..That’s it! Sounds like fun right? I also want to untangle sexual desire, usually in a fetishistic way towards an other (objectification) from love, which focuses on ‘the very being of another’. Love and sexuality are so not easily untangled, but that’s an essay for another day.

 

Kundera speaks of the ridiculousness of explain why you love someone. Because you love the being of a person, stating the reasons make no sense. What remains is that inexplicable kernel, that contingent encounter with the other which makes grown adults completely loose their shit and then look back in surprise an shock at their behaviour, their strong, almost uncontrollable emotions.

 

Gwyneth Paltrow’s ‘Conscious uncoupling’ my ass, if there was no conflict in that celebrity break-up there was certainly very little passion and possibly even less love. It was more of an arranged marriage between two photogenic public figures. That is exactly what happens when we attempt to make the strange attractor safe, to remove the danger from love. This untamable love has always existed in opposition to the ‘proper’ arrangements of marriage, the propagation of property ownership and the established social order. Given this we must examine the revolutionary potential of love today, and its need to be defended from attempts to tame it.

 

These attacks come from two sides. On the one hand the traditional, hetero-normative attack on Eros is the one we are used to. With calls towards morality, for monogamy and against promiscuity, always attempting to reposition love towards utilitarian ends. Lee Edelman calls this reproductive futurism, this ‘won’t someone think of the children’ argument-killer since who can be against the future or children any more than one can be against kittens or oxygen. Love is feared, rightfully so, because it refuses to be herded into ‘proper’, accepted categories of desire. It is feared just as true queerness is, queerness as that refusal to accept reproductive futurism, to be the horror at the centre of normality.

 

On the other hand is the newer, post-modern attack on love. Love is essentially an embarrassing affair for all involved. In this age of appearance and spectacle, of self-conscious ironic disavowal of affective investment in anything, there is an attempt to ‘denature’ love. As Zizek calls it, diet love, alcohol-free beer, love without the pain, without the unexpected, without the madness. Paltrow’s handling of her break-up epitomizes this approach. This is a far more insidious attack on love than the traditional one, whose direct opposition served only to validate true love as an antagonist.

 

This attack follows today’s neo-Buddhist personal philosophy of late capital, the imperative to enjoy, to ‘just be happy’, the mantra ‘follow your dreams, do what you love, follow your heart’ etc, but do so ‘consciously’ or ‘mindfully’ to use some abused buzz words, do so within the confines of accepted behaviour and always with a certain self-conscious ‘I am I aware I look silly doing this but..’. I think this approach is even more conformist today, where we reduce everything to a logic of means and ends, with the pursuit of pleasure as the only goal. Denatured love becomes just another packaged experience we consume while obeying the conformist imperative to enjoy.

 

Love, which is a special mode of desire, a true encounter with the other, where you reach for an object and it reaches back to you. Where the object of desire becomes another subject and as a consequence produces an explosive reaction which threatens/promises a revolution of our internal landscape. Eros love is much too unstable a chemical to be used for political struggle, although it tends to be an unreliable catalyst of revolution. And you wanted to tame it?

 

While I understand and accept the reasons for wanting to break out of the traditional, monogamous love > marriage > reproduction cycle, I see love as a far more eternal, dangerous category, one which acts as a short- circuit between the personal and the impersonal. Which is the reason why every attempt was made to channel it into reproductive logic. Breaking these links to love, re-discovering it, experimenting with new ways of living this unalienable human experience, living it not just as an explosive affect but as a daily practice while also accepting the pain and danger love presents us with, is in my view the very foundation of any path to a revolutionary life. We must fight any puritanical attempts to either conventionalise or denature love, it is one of the few freedoms we have left.

 

 

Curiosity, Complexity and Chaos

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A global client is surprised that the most advanced, working technical implementation of a certain system is to be found in their Brazilian subsidiary. This is something I find again and again consulting for global organisations, not just Brazil of course, but any of the many, much ignored places that happen to also contain the most of the world’s population.

Europeans and Westerners are still waking up to the fact that they aren’t at the cutting edge of innovation, or even geopolitically relevant (except when they use overpriced military gizmos to kill innocents with “smart” warfare. F35s and multi-million dollar remote controlled airplanes: dazzling innovation). Go home Europe, you old drunk.
That ‘chaos’ that Germans find abroad on holidays in the global south – which to them, confirms their domestic superiority – is in fact an error-tolerant order they are incapable of comprehending.

Order within systems must not be confused with aesthetic value judgements. There is a horror inherent in the Germanic aesthetic sense of order and cleanliness which no amount of disinfectant and obsessive-compulsively designed public spaces can extirpate.

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The 100 and Looper – Notes on American Violence in Action/Sci-Fi

The 100 is a remarkable piece of reactionary TV propaganda. Within it, one sees an on-going apology for violence, of American imperialism wrestling with its conscience and always returning to find justification for its heinous acts under the banner of necessity.

 

“I’m so, so very sorry, but I just had no choice, I did what I had to do to protect my own”

 

While this reactionary justification for violence is common to most violent regimes, The 100’s version of it specifically American for a number of reasons I will examine in in this post. The narrative premise of The 100 begins with the story of a few thousand survivors of a global nuclear apocalypse living in a cobbled together space station. The nuclear conflagration event has supposedly made the earth uninhabitable for 100 years, and story begins just a few years shy of this date. The space station is not able to support the survivors for much longer. For almost 100 years the survivors have lived under a disciplinarian regime – in the name of necessity – where the only punishment, for even minor offences, is ‘getting spaced’.

 

The space station has a number of imprisoned juveniles (100 of them, to be precise), who thanks to their minor age are spared the capital punishment that would otherwise await them. The space station leadership decides to use them as human lab rats by sending them down to earth, thus delaying the immediate problem of too many mouths to feed, and also exploring the survival of Earth. Once on the ground, the youths discover two things. Firstly, the surface of the earth is survivable. Second, they are not the sole survivors. The other surviving humans have reverted to a hunter-gatherer state, with various warring tribes. They come to be known as ‘grounders’. With thoughtless ease, the photogenic youths enter into conflict with the grounders. Although hugely outnumbered, their superior weaponry and technical knowledge allows the space youths to just manage to survive.

 

One key narrative element that makes this dystopian SF specifically American is its conflicted relationship to history. The notion of a clean break with the decadence of the past, here portrayed by the global nuclear event, is a key part of the premise. The ‘clean’ future that awaits is one in which youth, full of vigorous good intentions, is bound by tribal loyalty to protect their own against the Other. They have no choice but to make decisions which result in the deaths of dozens of grounders. Moderate characters on both sides attempt to find alternatives to violent conflict, but the writers continuously place even these moderates in situations where it is necessary to kill a few hostiles for the good of the many.

 

In true puritanical vein, violence is purifying and the erasure of history necessary for the western frontiersman fantasy to continue. The global nuclear event purified and liberated the 100 from history, and the violent acts they commit are necessary to expunge the evil in the Other. This conception of evil is also distinctly a feature of the protestant American subconscious: evil as something real and external, which is not only possible to expunge, but morally necessary. This insight is not new and has long been noted as a key feature of American culture, but it is interesting to see this notion of evil justifying war and violence continue so prominently in contemporary SF given the important place that SF has in speculating about possible futures.

 

While the characters in The 100 are torn by guilt and remorse, yet continue to be forced by necessity into further violent actions, Bruce Willis represents the remorseless avatar for American violence in film. Nowhere is this this better characterized and problematized than in Looper (2015). The Bruce Willis character does what we all expect him to do – kill bad scores of bad guys – but in Looper the violence is never redemptive. His character’s narrative, taken on its own, could easily have been the story for a typical Bruce Willis action film: tough, violent guy redeemed by the heteronormative love of a beautiful woman, who ekes out revenge on the bad guys who take him from her. As with all action films, the bad guys never have children, lovers or parents who are affected by their deaths. At the forefront are the heroic actions of redemptive violence of the protagonist, all the rest is mere backdrop to the hero’s quest. The hero and his woman, of course, who is also nothing more than the nurturing female support to the master signifier of the narrative.

 

Looper problematizes this by making us aware of the consequences of violence, regardless of who is performing these actions. Actions have consequences, we are affected by history. There can be no clean break with history, and there is no such thing as clean violence. Every drone strike creates more ‘extremists’, every violent action has devastating consequences on the survivors. There is no walking off into the sunset, Looper reminds us.

 

You want me to shoot some bad guys?

 

Bruce Willis does just as we expect him to, for the love of his woman, his property, he kills a bunch of bad guys and then goes into the past to continue the cleaning operation. But in Looper, the bad guys are never portrayed as simple gun fodder. They are themselves the traumatised victims of violence, and the violence they mete out creates more lost, traumatised kids, who in turn commit more violent actions. The redemptive violence is shown in Looper as either the cause of future problems, or it is portrayed as completely ridiculous. The ridiculousness of justice, Bruce Willis style, is clearly shown in the scenes where he escapes capture and imminent execution by killing the entire gang and its leader. There is no moment of glory, no granting of satisfaction to the audience that the nemesis has been vanquished, no gloating over the corpse of the boss, what remains is the protagonist and his personal trauma, still unresolved through the inflicting of yet more violence on others.

Book Launch Event: Jon Roffe – Abstract Market Theory

Jon Roffe is launching his fantastic latest book, Abstract Market Theory.

 

When:
Saturday, 14 November 2015 from 16:00 to 18:00.

 

Where:
Wheeler Centre
176 Little Lonsdale Street
Melbourne, VIC 3000

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